Dating women out of my league
You'll back off from taking the next step because you don't want to ruin what you've got, right? This fear is ruining the ability of most men to get things started with women they're attracted to. And when you feel sexual panic - and she senses it - this KILLS your sexual confidence.The "ONE critical thing" I've been talking about - that you need - is this: If your sexual confidence gets "turned off" when you're with a woman, she'll sense it.There's an old bit of sales wisdom that says that bad salesmen are 'bad' simply because they don't believe enough in the product they're selling.And the BEST salesmen believe they've got something fantastic - and every person alive needs to have this thing.After all, most women can be approached and will talk to you.But when you get ten minutes into a conversation, if you're faced with possibly taking a risk on her saying NO, you probably won't take that risk. Because they feel sexual PANIC around attractive women.It's the "magic bullet" for guys who want to put an end to their sexual frustration once and for all.lmost none of the guys out there know about this, and it's why most guys wind up settling for women instead of having a "trophy" on their arm.
I teach from a place of values and honor, and I'm proud to say that my material doesn't rely on manipulation or tricks to get you more dates and more women in your life. You see, the most important thing to know about this chain of steps from approaching a woman to dating her to sleeping with her is this: There is ONE absolutely critical attraction element you must have to get women to go 'all the way' with you.You know you've reached a point where you SHOULD do something to "make a move," but you don't. Even if you've tried other methods in the past and had limited success - or NO success.Maybe there's a pause in the conversation where you should ask for her number... Or you call her up to ask her out, but she seems distracted... Or she seems ready for the kiss, and the moment is right... I'll tell you this: I've personally experienced all 5 of those situations above at one point or another.You don't need any clever sales techniques when you REALLY believe in what you're selling. and the girl is just watching his every move, getting ready to stop him.Well, with most guys, their core foundation is unstable and shaky. They don't feel confident in their "product." They can't escalate and "close the deal." Not only is this true in sales, it's TWICE as true with women. So why don't you have confidence in your "product"? Because of something I call "fear of pulling the trigger..." Guys spend way too much time hiding their interest in women - because of sexual panic - and not being sexually assertive enough. They think they've got to approach a woman with kid gloves and be Mr. Do you know how to go further - faster - with women? The best thing you can do to guarantee that you keep moving forward - keep escalating - is just to know when she's about to put on the brakes, and then you stop her before she stops you.
You probably even want a girlfriend and not just a one night stand.